Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder.

 Hi fiends off late this is how my day goes how about yours? "P

 This is how it manifests:

 I decide to water my garden.

As I turn on the hose in the driveway,

I look over at my car and decide it needs washing.  

As I start toward the garage,

I notice mail on the porch table that

I brought up from the mail box earlier.

I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys on the table,

put the junk mail in the garbage can under the table,

and notice that the can is full.

So, I decide to put the bills back

on the table and take out the garbage first...

But then I think,

since I'm going to be near the mailbox

when I take out the garbage anyway,

I may as well pay the bills first.

I take my cheque book off the table,

and see that there is only one cheque left.

My extra cheques are in my desk in the study,

so I go inside the house to my desk where

I find the can of juice I'd been drinking.

I'm going to look for my cheques ,

but first I need to push the   juice aside

so that I don't accidentally knock it over.

The juice is getting warm,

and I decide to put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.

As I head toward the kitchen with the juice,

a vase of flowers on the counter

catches my eye--they need water.

I put the juice on the counter and

discover my reading glasses that

I've been searching for all morning.

I decide I better put them back on my desk,

but first I'm going to water the flowers.

I set the glasses back down on the counter,

fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote.

Someone left it on the kitchen table.

I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV,

I'll be looking for the remote,

but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table,

so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs,

but first I'll water the flowers.

I pour some water in the flowers,

but quite a bit of it spills on the floor.

So, I set the remote back on the table,

get some towels and wipe up the spill.

Then, I head down the hall trying to

remember what I was planning to do.

At the end of the day:

the car isn't washed

the bills aren't paid

there is a warm can of

juice sitting on the counter

the flowers don't have enough water,

there is still only 1 cheque in my cheque book,

I can't find the remote,

I can't find my glasses,

and I don't remember what I did with the car keys

Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today,

I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all  day,

and I'm really tired.

I realize this is a serious problem,

and I'll try to get some help for it, but first I'll check my e-mail....

Do me a favour.

Forward this message to everyone you know,

because I don't remember who I've sent it to.

Don't laugh -- if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!   

P. S. I don't remember who sent it to me, so if it was you, I'm sorry...

  

“Excellence: Skill or Attitude”

A real life story that inspired me to quite an extent and I came to believe in the message it conveyed~ We mostly do things for people around us and their to build on their views on us stop! We live once and its for OURSELVES. (i don't mean to say be selfish, but living life satisfactorily.We need to be satisfied with out own lives, No one can give it to you except you; You know what you are, others would only see and hear what they want to, you cannot change it, so be contempt with your life, be happy not for others but yourself!)


A gentleman once visited a place under construction where he saw a sculptor making a statute. Suddenly he noticed a similar statute lying nearby.

Surprised, he asked the sculptor, "Do you need two statues of the same kind?"

" No," said the sculptor without looking up, "We need only one, but the first one got damaged at the last stage."

The gentleman examined the statute and found no apparent damage… "Where is the damage?" he asked.

"There is a scratch on the nose of the statute," said the sculptor, still busy with his work.

"Where are you going to install the statute?"

The sculptor replied that it would be installed on a pillar twenty feet high.

"If the statute is that high, who is going to know that there is a scratch on the nose?" the gentleman asked.

The sculptor stopped his work, looked up at the gentleman, smiled and said, "I know it and God knows it!"

My derivation of the message conveyed~

The desire to excel should be exclusive of the fact whether someone appreciates it or not.

Excellence is a drive from inside, not outside.

Excel at a task today – not necessarily for someone else to notice but for your own satisfaction.

Remember, "Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude." – Ralph Marston

10 Secrets to Fulfilling Relationships

   1. The first secret? the power of THOUGHT.
      Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires.

   2. The second secret? the power of GIVING.
      If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

   3. The third secret? the power of RESPECT.
      You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

   4. The fourth secret? the power of FRIENDSHIP.
      To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other’s eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

   5. The fifth secret? the power of LETTING GO.
      If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, it’s yours; if it doesn’t, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me – today is the beginning of a new life."

   6. The sixth secret? the power of COMMUNICATION.
      When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word – it could be the last time you see them! If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and … why are you waiting?

   7. The seventh secret? the power of COMMITMENT.
      If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

   8. The eighth secret? the power of PASSION.
      Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

   9. The ninth secret? the power of TOUCH.
      Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

  10. The tenth secret? the power of TRUST.
      Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it, one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

A girl's message-

If you see me walking the road with someone else
It’s not because I like his company
Its because you’re not brave enough to walk
beside me.

If you hear me talking about him all the time
Its not because he pleases me
Its because you’re too deaf to hear my
heartbeat

If you feel me falling with someone new
Its not because I love him
Because you’re not there to catch me fall

If you feel lost, I too am nowhere
I too don’t know where the road is going
Are we gonna cross each other’s path
Or just completely turn around?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound

Don’t let me walk with him
It’s you I want to walk with
Don’t let me talk of him
It’s you I want to talk with
Don’t let me fall for him
It’s you I want to fall in love with.

“HOW THE GUY REPLY”

When you thought I wasn’t brave enough to walk
beside you
I was behind you every step of the way
Still filled with awe because of the beauty
that stands before me

When you thought I was too deaf to hear your
heartbeat I didn’t want to assume anything
And I was afraid to lose our friendship

When you thought I wasn’t there to catch you
It was because you never gave me the chance
You never reached the bottom, you’ve already
grabbed a branch

If you feel like you are nowhere, I too am
lost I too don’t know where the road is going
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other’s path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?

Don’t let me walk alone
I want to walk by your side
Don’t let me talk of something else
It’s you I want to talk with
Don’t fall for someone else
It’s you I want to fall in love with.

Did you know? Facts-

By making simple changes in our everyday lives, we can make significant strides to improve the planet we all share”


An energy efficient washing machine will use a third less electricity for each wash, which, over its lifetime, could save you more than the cost of the appliance.


A third of water used in the home goes down the toilet


The average bath uses 80 litres of water.


Don’t blow it – good planets are hard to find.

Installing Love

Customer Service Rep: Can you install LOVE?


Customer: I can do that. I’m not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?


Customer Service Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma’am?


Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now.Is it okay to install while they are running?


Customer Service Rep: What programs are running ma’am?


Customer: Let me see….I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.COM running right now.


Customer Service Rep: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma’am?


Customer: I don’t know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?


Customer Service Rep: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM have been completely erased.


Customer: Okay, I’m done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal?


Customer Service Rep: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message?


Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?


Customer Service Rep: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades.


Customer: Oops…I have an error message already. What should I do?


Customer Service Rep: What does the message say?


Customer: It says "ERROR 412 – PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS". What does that mean?


Customer Service Rep: Don’t worry ma’am, that’s a common problem. It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to "LOVE" your own machine before It can "LOVE"others.


Customer: So what should I do?


Customer Service Rep: Can you find the directory called "SELF-ACCEPTANCE"?


Customer: Yes, I have it.


Customer Service Rep: Excellent, you are getting good at this.


Customer: Thank you.


Customer Service Rep: You’re welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, EALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.


Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH.COM, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.COM are copying themselves all over my HEART!


Customer Service Rep: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go…


Customer: Yes?


Customer Service Rep: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you.


Customer: I will. Thank you for your help. 

The Two Angels

Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion’s guest room. Instead the angels were given a space in the cold basement.


As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied… “Things aren't always what they seem”.


The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night’s rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field.


The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel “how could you have let this happen!? The first man had everything, yet you helped him,” she accused. “The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let their cow die.”


“Things aren't always what they seem,” the older angel replied. “When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn’t find it. Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave her the cow instead. Things aren’t always what they seem.”


Sometimes this is exactly what happens when things don’t turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later.

“Excellence: Skill or Attitude? ”

A gentleman once visited a place under construction where he saw a sculptor making a statute. Suddenly he noticed a similar statute lying nearby.


Surprised, he asked the sculptor, "Do you need two statues of the same kind?"


"No," said the sculptor without looking up, "We need only one, but the first one got damaged at the last stage."


The gentleman examined the statute and found no apparent damage… "Where is the damage?" he asked.


"There is a scratch on the nose of the statute," said the sculptor, still busy with his work.


"Where are you going to install the statute?"


The sculptor replied that it would be installed on a pillar twenty feet high.


"If the statute is that high, who is going to know that there is a scratch on the nose?" the gentleman asked.


The sculptor stopped his work, looked up at the gentleman, smiled and said, "I know it and God knows it!"




Moral: 


The desire to excel should be exclusive of the fact whether someone appreciates it or not. 


Excellence is a drive from inside, not outside. 


Excel at a task today – not necessarily for someone else to notice but for your own satisfaction. 


Remember, "Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude." – Ralph Marston

Soch ko salaam !

Soch ko apni le jao uss shikhar tak,

Ke uske aage saare sitaare jhuk jaye

Na banaao apne safar ko kisi kashti ka mohtaaj,

Chalo iss shaan se ke toofan bhi jhuk jaye

Women's Beauty

A woman was asked what she used to make her complexion so beautiful and her whole being so bright and attractive. She answered: "I use for my lips - truth; I use for my voice - kindness; I use for my ears - compassion; I use for my hands - charity; I use for my figure - uprightness; I use for my heart - love; I use for anyone who do not like me - prayer."

The Making of a Woman

By the time the Lord made women, He was into the sixth day working overtime.  An Angel  appeared and said "Why are you spending so much  time on this one?"

And the Lord answered and  said, "Have you read the specification sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not elastic; have 200+ movable parts, all replaceable; run on black coffee and leftovers; have a lap that can hold three children at one time; have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart; and have six pairs of hands."  

The Angel was astounded at the requirements for this one. "Six pairs of hands! No way!"  said the Angel.

The Lord replied, "Oh, it's not the hands that are the problem.  It's the three pair of eyes that women must have!"

"And that's on the standard model?" the Angel asked.

The Lord nodded in agreement, "Yep, one pair of eyes are to see through the closed door as she asks her children what they are doing even though she already knows. Another pair in the back of her head are to see what she needs to know even though no one thinks she can. And the third pair are here in the front of her head.  They are for looking at an errant child and saying that she understands and loves him or her without even saying a single word."

The Angel tried to stop the Lord  "This is too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."

"But I can't!" The Lord protested, "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself  when she is sick AND can feed a family of six on a pound of hamburger and can get a nine year old to stand in the shower."

The Angel moved closer and touched the woman, "But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?" asked the Angel.

The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason, and negotiate."

The Angel then noticed something and reached out and touched the woman's cheek. "Oops, it looks like You have a leak with this model. I told You that You were trying to put too much into  this one."

"That's not a leak." the Lord objected.  "That's a tear!"

"What's the tear for?" the Angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her disappointment, her pain, her loneliness, her grief, and her pride."  

The Angel was impressed.  "You are a genius, Lord.  You thought of everything for this one.  You even created the tear!"

The Lord looked at the Angel and smiled and said, "I'm afraid you are wrong again.  I created the woman, but she created the tear!"

A puppy for sale

A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the pups and set about Nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he Felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the Eyes of a little boy.

Mister," he said, "I want to buy one of your puppies."

"Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, "these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money."

The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. "I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?"

"Sure," said the farmer.

And with that he let out a whistle,"Here,Dolly!" he called.

Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur. The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight.

As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse. Slowly another little ball appeared; this One noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid. Then in a somewhat awkward manner the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up....

"I want that one," the little boy said, pointing to the runt.

The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said, "Son, you don't want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would."

With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers. In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself To a specially made shoe. Looking back up at the farmer, he said, "You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will need Someone who understands."

The world is full of people who need someone who understands.

Zodiacs as per Sun sign

Zodiacs and Astrology Symbols

Zodiac	Symbol	Period	Keyword	Ruling Planet
Aries	Ram	March 21-April 19	I am	Mars
Taurus	Bull	April 20 - May 20	I have	Venus
Gemini	Twins	May 21 - June 21	I think	Mercury
Cancer	Crab	June 22 - July 22	I feel	Moon
Leo	Lion	July 23 - Aug 22	I will	Sun
Virgo	Virgo	Aug 23 - Sept 22	I serve	Mercury
Libra	Balance	Sept 23 - Oct 22	I discern	Venus
Scorpio	Scorpion	Oct 23 - Nov 21	I desire	Mars
Sagittarius	Archer	Nov 22 - Dec 21	I perceive	Jupiter
Capricorn	Goat	Dec 22 - Jan 19	I use	Saturn
Aqaurius	Water Bearer	Jan 20 - Feb 18	I know	Saturn
Pisces	Fish	Feb 19 - March 20	I believe	Jupiter

Planets and their Symbolism's

Planet	Represents
Sun	Individualization, Purpose, Will, Acquisitiveness.
Moon	Awareness, Consciousness, Feeling.
Mercury	Thinking, Mentality.
Venus	Love, Beauty, Pleasure.
Mars	Will, Desires, Initiative.
Jupiter	Enthusiasm. Expansion.
Saturn	Obligations.
Uranus	Self-potency , Independence, Freedom, Rhythm.
Neptune	Vision.
Pluto	Obsession, Power.
N.Node	Connecting, Unions.

Elements of Zodiac Signs

Fiery Signs- Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

The element of Fire deals with Spirit and the Psychological Function of Intuition. It gives the native warmth, inspiration, excitement, enthusiasm, energy and willpower, ambition and a fiery nature. Their intensity, exuberance and energy levels tend to wear out most people. They can often deal with conditions of a volatile, intense and passionate nature with little wear and tear. Often they believe it's better to "burn out, than rust out. They are the cheer leaders of the Zodiac and their mottos are "go for it," and "just do it."

Earthy Signs - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

The element of Earth deals with Material or Mundane concerns and the Psychological Function of Sensation. It gives the native a practical, sensual and earthy nature that is inclined and well suited to worldly affairs. They are generally grounded and prefer to be kept busy by working, and efficiently dispatching, accomplishing and succeeding in the affairs of everyday life. They possess good common sense, a strong material nature, and like to be efficient. Often miss the forest because of the trees. Prefer tangible evidence and the "bird in hand."

Airy Signs - Gemini,Libra, Aquarius

The element of Air relates to Perception and the Psychological Function of Thinking and the Patterning, Ordering and quantifying of the thought or other perceptual data. The highly functioning Air Sign is affable, agreeable, charming, witty and is quick of mind and humor. The lists we make and the directions we follow all fall under the auspices of the Air Sign's gifts. Much more ready to discuss than do, they possess keen analytical skills and are a blessing to almost all they meet. They can become easily distracted and bored. Trouble follows them because many of them think "mind should rule supreme," while they discount other modes of functioning. Often sedantic and intellectual snobs. Air signs represent all the glyphs, books and signs ever made. This includes all of the arts.

Watery Signs -Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

The water element rules the reproductive and lymphatic systems and body liquids—including blood, mucus and lymph. Water lubricates, flushes and cools the body. Water signs are exceptionally sensitive to their environment, particularly to fungi, bacteria and viruses. Health issues for water signs generally have a strong emotional component. Water sign people easily pick up negativity from others.They tend to brood on their health and imagine problems to be greater than they are. Their health problems tend to recur in cycles.

Qualities of Zodiac Signs

Quality	Signs
Cardinal	Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn
Fixed	Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Mutable	Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces

Zodiac signs & symbols

Zodiac Sign Actions Ideals Symbols ARIES Anabolic, Catalytic, Aspiring Courage, Patience Torch, Forge, Blade, Nail TAURUS Generative, Fecundating Beauty, Harmony Pillar, Flower, Labyrinth, Bread GEMINI Inquisitive, Vivification, Amplification Excitement, Joy Pencil, Book, Letter, Wheel CANCER Cultivation, Expansion, Survival Compassion, Mercy Mirror, Lake, Pool, Container LEO Creative, Willful, Heroic Honor, Glory, Justice Dynamo, Turbine, Heart, Pyramid VIRGO Analytical, Elimination, Assimilation Purity, Service Harvest, Potion, Herbs, Hopper LIBRA Equalize, Stabilization Balance, Love, Equality Scales, Heart, Feather, Ring SCORPIO Catabolic, Regenerative Forgiveness, Peace, Sharing Furnace, Volcano, Hot Spring SAGITTARIUS Discernment, Discrimination Sagacity, Truth, Temperance Lamp, Candle, Target, Flag CAPRICORN Administrative, Survival Oriented, Expedient Faith, Devotion, Dedication Mountain, Mine, Rocks, Farm, Ice AQUARIUS Definitive, Explorative Loyalty, Support, Fellowship Rainbow, Congress, Commune, Utopia PISCES Sympathy, Sacrifice Selfless Love, Hope, Belief Ocean, Shell, Fog Horn, Mist

House Relations

Zodiac Signs	Ruler	House	Exaltation	Fall	Enemy house
ARIES	MARS	1st House	CAPRICORN 28	CANCER 28	LIBRA
TAURUS	VENUS	2nd House	PISCES 27	VIRGO 27	SCORPIO
GEMINI	MERCURY	3rd House	VIRGO 15	PISCES 15	SAGITTARIUS
CANCER	MOON	4th House	TAURUS 3	SCORPIO 3	CAPRICORN
LEO	SUN	5th House	ARIES 19	LIBRA 19	AQUARIUS
VIRGO	MERCURY	6th House	VIRGO 15	PISCES 15	PISCES
LIBRA	VENUS	7th House	PISCES 27	VIRGO 27	ARIES
SCORPIO	PLUTO	8th House	PISCES	VIRGO	TAURUS
SAGITTARIUS	JUPITER	9th House	CANCER 15	CAPRICORN 15	GEMINI
CAPRICORN	SATURN	10th House	LIBRA 21	ARIES 21	CANCER
AQUARIUS	URANUS	11th House	AQUA, SCOR	LEO, TAURUS	LEO
PISCES	NEPTUNE	12th House	LEO	AQUARIUS	VIRGO

OPPOSITE / INCOMPATIBLE ZODIAC SIGNS

If comfort or betterment is desired in a relationship, it is more easily achieved with "similar" signs; yet one should be aware that the "differences" or "Opposite Signs" also add interest and excitement and the best opportunity for personal growth.

The six combination of opposite zodiac signs are:

• Aries which emphasizes personal interests, Libra which relies on shared interests;
• Taurus which focuses on physical stability, Scorpio upon emotional stability;
• Gemini emphasizes the search for knowledge, Sagittarius the quest for wisdom;
• Cancer structures the emotions, Capricorn the physical world;
• Leo believes in personal values, Aquarius promotes collective social values;
• Virgo practices physical self-sacrifice, Pisces declares emotional self-sacrifice.

There are four elements of signs. They are:

• Fiery signs - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
• Airy signs- Libra, Aquarius, Gemini
• Watery signs- Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
• Earthy signs- Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo

The opposite signs are:

• Fiery signs are not compatible with watery signs.
• Fiery signs are not compatible with earthy signs.
• Watery signs are not compatible with airy signs.
• Earthy signs are not compatible with airy signs.

Incompatibility Table of the Zodiac signs

Zodiac Sign	Disagreeable Signs(Opposite Signs)
Aries	Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
Taurus	Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aries
Gemini	Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn
Cancer	Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius
Leo	Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces, Cancer
Virgo	Libra, Leo, Aquarius, Aries
Libra	Pisces, Taurus, Virog, Scorpio
Scorpio	Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius
Sagittarius	Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer
Capricorn	Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Virgo
Aquarius	Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo
Pisces	Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius

Zodiac Signs - Properties

Property	Aries	Taurus	Gemini
Number	1	2	3
Ruler	Mars	Earth	Mercury
Force	motivations	ecology	concepts
Aspect	conjunction	opposition	trine
House	appearances	resources	connections
Work	action	grounds	talks
Body system	muscular system	ego	respiratory system
Body parts	head	ears, neck throat	hands ,arms lungs
Relativity	unites	polarizes	facilitates
Effect	pivotal fusion	balanced	agreeable
Style	assertive	aquisitive	versatile
Politics	military	greens	intelligents
Vices	chauvinism	greed	deception
Weather	hot	stable	winds
Motto	I am	I have	I think
Zone	personal	financial	everyday
Character	enterprising	aesthetic	skillful
Minerals	iron	topsoil	mercury
Gemstone	diamonds	emerald	moonstone
Flower	daisy	valley lilly	rose
Exercise	martial arts	nautilus	walking
Scent	Dragon's Blood	Storax	Wormwood
Color	red	green	two-tones
music	Brass	Money sounds	Lyrics

Property	Cancer	Leo	Virgo
Number	4	5	6
Ruler	Moon	Sun	Chiron
Force	instincts	self-awareness	mentoring
Aspect	square	quintile	sextile
House	real estate	talent	ritual
work	feels emotions	creates identity	teaches coaching
Body system	autonomic nerves	circulatory system	mind/body connection
Body parts	stomach, breasts	heart, back	intestines
Relativity	manifestation	exposes talent	cooperates
Effect	challenging	brilliant	lucky
Style	emotional	dramatic	helpful
Politics	people	elite	mavericks
Vices	abusive	pride	sloth
Weather	wet	dry	clement
Motto	I feel	I create	I analyze
Zone	domestic	playground	service
character	familial	spontanious	sagacious
Minerals	silver	gold	silicon
Gemstone	pearl, ruby	peridot	sapphire
Flower	water lily	poppy	aloe
Exercise	swimming, rowing	aerobics	gardening
Scent	Cleavage	Amber	Sage
Colors	silver	purple	brown
music	Slipping, Sucking	Drums	music critic

Property	libra	Scorpio	Sagittarius
Number	7	8	9
Ruler	Venus	Pluto	Jupiter
Force	affinity	cleansing	encouragement
Aspect	septile	sesquisquare	novile
Houses	relationships	merging	acedemic
Work	attracts love	transformation	travels, learns
Body system	genito-urinary system	atomic body	digestive system
body parts	kidneys	secret parts	hips, thighs
Relativity	does not confirm	focuses	muses with
Effect	spirited	deliberate	ceremonial
Style	thoughtful	intense	expansive
Politics	diplomats	underworld	liberals
Vices	vanity	wrath	gluttony
Weather	pleasant	destructive	expands
Motto	I balance	I seek insight	I seek freedom
Zone	partnerships	taboo	international
Character	interpersonal	resourseful	optimistic
Minerals	copper	plutonium	tin
Gemstone	opal	topaz	turquoise
Flower	cosmos	yoni	narcissus
Exercise	racket sports	ice skating	equestrian
Scent	Sandalwood	Patchouli	Frankincense
Colors	green	black , red	blue
musical	Strings	Subliminal	Ethnic

Property	Capricorn	Aquarius	Pisces
Number	10	11	12
Ruler	Saturn	Uranus	Neptune
Force	decisions	liberation	fantasy
Aspect	decile	undecile	semisextile
Houses	ambitions	causes	oneness
Work	powers	innovative	subtlety
Body system	skeletal system	acupuncture meridians	aura body
Body parts	bones, knees	ankles	feet
Relativity	organizes	modifies	clarifies
Effect	successful	insightful	nearby
Style	determined	friendly	compassionate
Politics	conservatives	radicals	socialists
Vices	miserly	cruelty	indolence
Weather	cold and dry	ice, tornadoes	fog floods
Motto	I utilize	I know	I believe
Zone	profesional	associations	twilight
Character	pragmatic	extraordinary	ideological
Minerals	lead	uranium	neptunium
Gemstone	garnet	amethyst	aquamarine
Flower	carnation	primrose	violet
Exercise	climbing	group sport	swim, sail
Scent	Musk	Coconut	Ambergris
Colors	gray	blue, hot pink	sea green
music	Structured	Off Beat, Synth	Ethereal

DIET :

Fire Signs : Aries / Leo / Sagittarius

Fire rules the function of internal combustion or digestion—the burning up or absorption of food. Fire also purifies the system by burning off toxins, viruses, bacteria and fungus. Fire signs easily fight disease. Their constitution naturally tends toward high temperatures.

Excess Fire

Fire signs, when unbalanced to excess or over stimulation, are prone to burning themselves out. Excess fire can be impatient and angry, or internalizes it into hypertension, heart problems, ulcers or inflammations. Excess fire is brought back into balance by foods that are cold, moist and heavy, or slow-burning foods that ground energy.

Take	Grains, root vegetables
Avoid	Spicy food, red meat
Remedy	herbs like chamomile, lemon balm, skull cap and valerian.

Low Fire

When your fire is low, it may be hard to burn off or fight disease. Digestion and absorption of food are inadequate. Eat foods that are hot, light, dry and aromatic. Avoid cold foods.

Take	lemon, yogurt, bitter greens like kale, mustard.
Avoid	dairy products, meat
Remedy	digestive stimulants like cayenne, mustard, cloves, cinnamon,garlic, ginger.

Air Signs: Gemini / Libra / Aquarius

Air rules the nervous and circulatory systems and the function of movement, peristalsis, urination and breathing. Air people are easily stimulated, with quick and extremely sensitive minds that are easily thrown off balance and overwhelmed.

Excess Air

Overactive, restless, sensitive minds and nervous exhaustion plague air signs, as does dry skin, hair and mucus membranes, insomnia and memory loss from systemic overload. Excess air benefits from scheduled windows of quiet, with minimal stimulation, to allow the nervous system to recharge itself.

Take	lightly steamed vegetables, nuts, croutons.
Avoid	Raw foods ,Grains, root crops, yeasty foods, refined sugar.
Remedy	enzymes which help in proper absorption of nutrients.

Low Air

When the air element is low, there is difficulty with the flow of energy through the body. A weakened nervous system benefits from mineral supports such as calcium and magnesium, and circulatory stimulants. Eat plenty of raw foods, vegetable juices and sprouted seeds. Oats in any form—oatmeal, oatstraw tea or oat tincture, are tonifying to a weak nervous sytem without being sedating.

Take	Ginkgo, cayenne, garlic, ginger, yogurt, kefir.
Remedy	dandelion root or angostura bitters .

Water signs: Cancer / Scorpio / Pisces

The water element rules the reproductive and lymphatic systems and body liquids—including blood, mucus and lymph. Water lubricates, flushes and cools the body. Water signs are exceptionally sensitive to their environment, particularly to fungi, bacteria and viruses.

Health issues for water signs generally have a strong emotional component. Water sign people easily pick up negativity from others. They tend to brood on their health and imagine problems to be greater than they are. Their health problems tend to recur in cycles.

Excess Water

These people tend toward sluggish digestion, poor assimilation and slow metabolism. Stagnant excess water may manifest as mucus, cysts, tumors and swellings, as well as systemic candida. Excess water can manifest as weight problems. It is seldom helpful to decrease dietary intake alone. Better results come from increasing the metabolic rate, decreasing the liquid intake, changing the diet and increasing physical activity.Excess Water is balanced by foods that are hot, dry and light.

Take	steamed vegetables, beans, fruits.
Avoid	oily foods, diary, sweets, yeasty foods, breads and salt.
Remedy	sage, basil and thyme, Diuretics such as parsley, uva ursi and juniper berries, Chapparal, garlic and olive leaf

Low Water

Low Water constitutions have trouble flushing toxins from their systems, and lack lubrication to their systems. They tend to be stiff and dehydrated and have difficulty sleeping. They suffer from conditions similar to excess air, such as skin and hair dryness and difficult absorption of nutrients. They find it hard to accept emotional nourishment. Take baths, drink plenty of liquids, and live near water.Melons, cucumbers and other moist and fleshy vegetables help balance this constitution Don't fast, take care with extreme exposure to heat or sunlight and take extra salt with exertion or warm weather.

Take	wheat, rice, oats, seaweed, dairy products and natural sugars .
Avoid	beans and natural diuretics such as carrots, celery, cabbage and asparagus
Remedy	licorice sweetened with honey, Fruit juices

Earth Constitution :Taurus / Virgo / Capricorn

The earth element rules the skeletal and eliminatory systems. The earth element is essential for growth, reproduction and repair of tissue. Earth signs tend toward weight problems, tumor growth or glandular disorder. Overeating and a diet of heavy foods create excess earth, which is aggravated by lack of exercise and sedentary habits. They often have beautiful strong teeth.

The earth signs have strong sense impressions and thrive on contact with the earth. Theirs is a strength of endurance and persistence. They are more resistant to transient colds and flu than fire or air signs.

Excess Earth

Excess earth is prone to heaviness in the body and sluggishness in the system, and the struggle to overcome inertia. Their digestion and metabolism are slow, increasing density of body tissue—i.e. thick skin, sclerosis, calcium deposits, tumors and increased body hair.

Take	fruit- salads, sprouts ,steamed vegetables with spices added, juices, soups and teas .
Avoid	heavier diets
Remedy	bitter tonics such as gentian or Swedish bitters, hot spices such as ginger, black pepper and cayenne

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Low Earth

Low earth needs grounding. These people tend to ignore their bodies and are not instinctive about what they need. They need routines that stabilize them and give a sense of security. They need more sleep than other elements, and benefit from physical contact with the earth.

Take	meat, potatoes, unrefined grains, root crops ,dairy,vegetables steamed , cheese, butter,sugar and oil .
Avoid	fruits and raw foods
Remedy	demulcents such as licorice and slippery elm, seaweed and minerals, Ginseng, astragalus, ahashwaganda.