When life Ditches -

We have all faced situations when life ditches us. When you think nothing is happening according to "The PLAN". When nothing is going your way, when nothing feels good, when everything looks screwed everywhere. This is when we say, life has ditched me. Its not happy with me, its not satisfied with me.

Life according to us is another side of a noisy girlfriend or boyfriend, who you think never thinks about what is happening to you, but is only concerned with what is happening to him/her. Yes it is the same way. Its never ever that you face a single f**k-up at one time. It always comes in bundles. You fight with your spouse, you miss the transport, you soil your clothes, you're late at office, you're late to a meeting, you are yelled-at by your boss. It all happens in a chain. It all becomes a vicious circle. Right? That is when you think, life has ditched you.

I think different. I think, the more you think about life, the more you complicate & entangle it. The more you are mad at your life, the more it troubles you. Because when one is mad, you only tend to see the negative side of things. You are none other than a pessimist, who finds the bad out of everything! Human nature; accept it.(Same happens with me too)

The best way out? Yeah we have one.

Stop thinking. Stop worrying. Stop complaining! Your life might be better than millions and billions living in the world. We ween about our low salaries, there are people who die without food. We ween for holidays, there are people who work 20 hours a day to gather enough money to feed themselves. There is a bigger and brighter world outside this world of needs, desired and never ending wish lists.

If you face something bad, face it! Don't cry about it. You cannot always live on a bed of roses. Even if you do, Some thorns may prick you in your ass some day. If it does, bear it! Life is not so easy. Stop thinking about your meagre problems and think about what you are losing thinking about them.

A good mood always gets you a good life. A hassle free mind will always be more patient and productive. It was never, neither it is, nor it will be so easy to forget everything. And I'm not asking to forget your memoriess, I'm just asking you to stop thinking about them! Memories are always there to keep. Not recall and weep.

Now a brilliant quotation by Bob Marley : Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality . Wake Up and Live!