03 June 2009
Friendship between happy couples
Couples come together for companionship, romance,love, sex, economic survival,
friendship or some other reason. The most important of all is friendship.
Without friendship, all else falls apart. Friendship is the essence of human relationships.
It is the bond which glues the couple to see through thick and thin.
Some couples confide in each other. Some confide in their respective buddies.
Why is a spouse or partner not comfortably engaged as a buddy? There are reservations.
It’s demoralizing to have someone you hold in high esteem to know your latest problem.
It’s especially sensitive in men who are afraid of wounding their ego.
There can’t be a happy couple when both are wearing masks and playing charades.
In friendship, there’s trust enough to let down your guard and come clean with your problems.
Knowing that the other will always be there for you melts away the worries.
Humor helps to keep anxieties in the proper perspective.Get cracking on the jokes. Share domestic humor.
Crack up and not break up is a good motto to follow.
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Friendship is a better relationship than marriage !
ReplyDeletefriendship between couples is wonderful :-)according to me
ReplyDeleteFriendship without marriage between couples makes the relationship look opportune, not because of social misgivings, but because of the tinge of escapist tendancy.
ReplyDeleteMarriage without friendship is like two strangers fighting a common enemy(say any insecurity - even life's insecurities) and the relationship seems to last only as long the insecurity is present. Once the insecurity vanishes, the relationship is redundant.
These two definitions in themselves say how important friendship is within a marriage
Thanks for your comments
ReplyDeleteFor marital friendship to be successful, your
friendship needs to go beyond the concept of conditional love. You simply can not play the "I’ll give if you give" game. To be willing to lay down one’s life is to let go of all game-playing, and to be willing to give even if one is not given to.
wanting to make life better for each other. Married life should be more than just survival or coping. You should be enriching one another's life. If you don’t know how to do this, asking your spouse is the best way.
Friendship between couples means they "know each other intimately" and "are well versed in each other's likes, dislikes, personality quirks, hopes and dreams,"
few ways to enrich marriage would be by-
having an abiding regard for each other," expressing this esteem in many ways large and small, respecting each other, and enjoy one another's company.The quality of a married couple's friendship is the most important predictor of satisfaction with sex, romance, and passion
depthi, what happened no posts from you last few days, are you alright? Anything wrong? Or are you just busy?
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